Friday, October 11, 2024

Our Heavenly Father’s Heart Full of Love

 In the musical Les Misérables, Cosette, Marius And Eponine sing, “A Heart Full of Love.” That is a precise definition of Our Heavenly Father. He is a heart is so overflowing with love, it cannot contain itself and it bursts forth with love. At the same time, the son’s love is so great in return to the Father that out of the love for each other “the Holy Spirit proceeds from the Father and the Son.” This is the great mystery of God’s Trinitarian love.

In our finite smallness, we cannot begin to imagine such an ocean of love. As St. John says, “God is love” (1 John 4:8). The overflowing love of the Father is not restricted to just Jesus. He loves each of us as well. He loves us so much that he sent his only son to die for us. “For God sent the Son into the world, not to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him” (John 3:17).

In the same way that the Father has demonstrated his infinite love for us, he asks us to share our love with others. As Jesus said, “‘This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no man that this, that a man lay down his life for his friends'”(John 15:12). St. Maximilian Kolbe is an heroic example of this.

God knows, however, that is easier to love some than others. Jesus said, “‘But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven'” (Matt. 5: 44-45).

If we let ourselves become trapped in our own bitterness and pain, we will struggle to forgive others, We need to let go. “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, with all malice, and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you” (Ephesians 4:31-32).

Sometimes the emotional and physical pain are so great that the only way to forgive the other person is through grace, letting Christ forgive through me. “‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness'” (2 Cor. 12: 9). I forgive the unforgivable and love the unlovable, “For the sake of Christ” (2 Cor. 12:10).

In Les Misérables, Eponine despairs that Marius will never love her the way he loves Cosette, “Not to me, not to me, not to me. His heart full of love. He will never feel this way.” However, our Heavenly Father’s love is quite the opposite. He loves every one of us, even the ones who feel the least loveable. “Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?” (Matt. 6:26). As St. Augustine said, “God loves each of us as if there were only one of us.”

Our Father manifests his tender love for each one of us by continually sending us messengers and messages of love. Our loving Father in heaven has said, “You are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you” (Isaiah, 43:4). He sent his son, who was not merely a messenger of love, but redeemed us, “‘Behold, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!’” (John 1:29).

Christ, in turn, gave us his beloved mother. He said to John, representing all of us, “Behold your Mother” (John 19:27). What does she always say, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior” (Luke 1: 46-47). She humbly points to Jesus, saying, “Do whatever he tells you” (John 2:5).

Before he left, Jesus promised to send us the Holy Spirit (John 14:16). He encourages us, “‘I will not leave you desolate'” (John 14:18). The Holy Spirit “will teach you all things” (John 14:26).

God continues to reach out to us, expressing his loving-kindness and goodness by sending us his angels and saints to guide us. The Sacred Heart of Jesus and Merciful Heart of Jesus, “Jesus, I Trust in you,” are other examples of Jesus reaching out, touching our souls. St. Therese of Lisieux said, “Let us love, since that is what our hearts were made for.”

The Father’s love is so great that he wants us to spend it with him in eternity. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).

The Holy Bible is a love story, a divine romance. In the song, “In My Life,” from Les Misérables, Cosette wishes for love, “In my life there are times when I catch in the silence the sigh of a faraway song. And it sings of a world that I long to see, out of reach, just a whisper away, waiting for me.” She asks, “Does he know I’m alive? Do I know if he’s real?”

Yes, our Heavenly Father knows you are alive. He says, “You are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you” (Isaiah, 43:4). Our Heavenly Father says again and again, “‘I have loved you, ‘” (Malachi 1:2). “I have loved you with an everlasting love;” (Jeremiah 31:3).

Yes, our Heavenly Father is real. Cosette goes on to sing, “In my life I’m no longer alone. Now the love of my life is so near. Find me now. Find me here.” Our loving Father in heaven has found you, but each of us has a free will to accept or reject his invitation of love.

While Cosette may pine for a human love, our Heavenly Father’s love is there waiting for each one of us. Christ has told us, “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you” (John 15:9). Our heavenly Father’s heart is brimming with love. Marius and Cosette sing, “A heart full of light. A night bright as day. A heart full of you. And you must never go away. . . . A heart full of love. A heart full of you. . . . From today every day, for it isn’t a dream, not a dream after all.”

God’s love for each of us is not a dream. We are captivated by the romance of pure love. Our Heavenly Father’s love is far greater without limit. When I hear the song, “A Heart Full of Love,” I think of Christ’s love, so great for us that he offered his life. As St. Padre Pio exclaimed, “My Jesus, my sweetness, how can I live without You? Come always, my Jesus, come; You alone take possession of my heart,” (Padre Pio of Pietrelcina, Have a Good Day, 113).

Our Heavenly Fathers Heart Full of Love

June 9, 2020

Thursday, January 25, 2024

 Prayer: Vitamins for Your Soul

https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/prayer-vitamins-for-your-soul

I don’t know about you, but I don’t think I could make it through the day without my vitamins. I’ll be honest: sometimes I forget to take them in the confusion or hecticness of a particularly busy or stressful morning. Later in the morning or in the early afternoon I will feel like I just don’t have the energy to complete a simple task or a brain fog will set in, making easy decisions more complicated than they need to be. Then it dawns on me that I forgot to take my morning vitamins. 



It is the same way with my soul. If I forget to have my morning prayer time with my Heavenly Father, I am more likely to fall into negative feelings of worry or anxiety or just plain not being as patient as I should be. After all, when it comes to children, children will be children, so it is up to me to choose how I am going to respond to the challenges, difficulties and problems they present. Unfortunately, children do not come with instructions and sometimes, since they are fully human, they become more complicated when they become teenagers. At those moments when meeting challenges that flummox me the most, I am fully aware of having forgotten to take my vitamins, not only for my body but also for my soul. 

To be honest, if I miss my prayer time, it usually isn’t because I “forgot” but the schedule changed for some reason: I had an early appointment, or an unexpected emergency came up, or a myriad of other reasons. I find at that point when I recognize I need to refocus my attention or recharge my batteries, I need to immediately hit the reset button. I need to take a deep breath and find some time to converse with my Heavenly Father, even if it is only for a few moments.  

I need to make a phone call to my Papa. “Sorry, Dad, I missed my appointment with you. I want to thank you for that spectacular sunset last night. By the way, you sure work in mysterious ways. If I didn’t go to the store on Tuesday, I would not have bumped into someone who reminded me about the special Mass celebration on Saturday that I missed in the bulletin. Thank you! It was a beautiful time in more ways than one. And if you have any suggestions or tips on how to deal with one sassy little boy, I’m open to any ideas. I love you and I miss you immensely. Thank you for all that you have done for me.” 

 

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Vitamins work great! But they don’t work unless I take them. I need to remind myself to take my vitamins, not only for my body but also for my soul. In his Letter to the Philippians, Saint Paul reminds us,

Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4: 6-7)

Monday, January 1, 2024

More Children's Book Publishers!

 


I was looking for a complete list of Landmark books published by Random House from the 1950s through the 1970s and I found this site that lists favorite children's book publishers.

Biblio Guides


Here is there info about the Landmark series published by Random House (They were also published by Hale).

Biblio Guides Landmark Books

Monday, December 11, 2023

Books about Our Lady of Guadalupe


Our Lady of Guadalupe: The Graphic Novel

The Beautiful Lady: Our Lady of Guadalupe, Out of Print.

Our Lady of Guadalupe by Carmen T. Bernier-Grand (Out of Print). KINDLE EDITION LINKED.

Lady of Guadalupe by Tomie dePaola, Out of Print

Our Lady of Guadalupe and her dear Juanito

Miracle in Mexico: The Story of Juan Diego, Out of Print

Our Lady of Guadalupe and the Conquest of Darkness, Out of Print

Our Lady of Guadalupe: Our Lady of the Americas

Saint Juan Diego and Our Lady of Guadalupe (Encounter the Saints)


Monday, November 27, 2023

What We're Reading


These are just a few of the books we are reading right now. Some are mentioned on another post. 

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The Boy Who Grew a Forest: The True Story of Jadav Payeng by Sophia Gholz is based on the true story of a young boy in India who is saddened that the floodwaters destroy more and more of an island and surrounding land near his home. He plants trees in an effort to save the wildlife and carefully tends his trees and with time they grow and spread. Eventually, he grows into a man and continues to tend his trees which now cover a large area. Lovely illustrations. A story of hope and perseverance.

Goodby Autumn, Hello Winter by Kenard Pak is about a brother and sister who walk through the nature and then into town and talk about the changes in the seasons, saying hello and greeting them and then saying goodbye to other changes. Even though the text is simple for young readers, the beautiful illustrations are fascinating for all ages. The book encourages children to be more aware of the little changes that contribute to the changing of the seasons. The sister and brother relationship is also very sweet.

Blizzard by John Rocco is based on a true experience in the author's life of when he was a young boy and his journey to the grocery story after a blizzard. Great fun!

The Fishermen, the Horse, and the Sea by Barbara Joose, illus. by Renee Graef. Based on the true story, when two men are thrown from their rowboat during a fierce storm at night, a small group of fishermen and a horse gather to rescue them. Historical information is in the back.



One Boy Watching by Grant Snider. This vibrantly colored picture book follows a young boy as he waits for his school bus, climbs aboard, and notices the tractors, farms, and other details of the countryside out the bus window on his way to school and back home again.  

Little Red Sleigh by Erin Guendelsberger. A little red sled wishes to be Santa's sleigh. Of course, "everyone in the shop" told her she was "too small, too slow, and much too young." She sets out to prove them wrong and journeys north to Santa meeting a train and a truck and along the way is picked up by a little girl. Enchanting illustrations with a clever ending.

Fry Bread: A Native American Family Story by Kevin Noble Maillard. What is fry bread? Engaging all the senses with imaginative illustrations, the author explains what fry bread is in simple language. There is an appendix which offers more information about the historical aspects. This is for very young children, but written in a way to appeal to all ages.

The Christmas Pine by Julia Donaldson. Not just a cute story. The story is based on an actual event but written in a fun and engaging way in rhyme form for very young children. The child follows a pine tree growing up in Norway and being taken to England. The reader is not actually aware of the geography and history involved until after the story is over and the adult reads the end page. The lively text, charming illustrations and positive message about children make it a wonderful story. The book will appeal to younger children because of the very simple text.  


God's Great Love for You by Rick Warren. In very simple text for the very young reader, the author assures the child of God's great love for each one of us in various ways. The illustrations are very imaginative and sweet without being saccharine. Although the audience is for toddlers, it is a message we all need to be reminded of.

Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening  by Robert Frost, illus. by P. J. Lynch. From the perspective of a young woman and her horse, we follow Frost's famous poem. Captivating illustrations.

Palace of Books by Patricia Polacco. When Polacco was a young child, she had to leave the comfort of her home for a new home and school. There she discovers a palace of books. One of my favorite authors, who is a master at storytelling.

Bravest Man in the World by Patricia Polacco. Based on a true story, the length of the text and the trauma involved in the tragedy make it more appropriate for older children who have a deeper understanding of the meaning and beauty of self-sacrifice. 



Sticks and Stones by Patricia Polacco. How often to children have to deal with bullies in their school or neighborhood? Through kindness, encouragement and perseverance, three brave, resilient children battle against the bullies. This would be a great launching point for discussion on bullies and the many questions about handling them. The author's note on the end page is very inspiring to know that the kids who were bullied went on to achieve their dreams. 

Out of the Woods: An Unforgettable Event by Rebecca Bond is based on the true story of a young boy who lived in a hotel near a logging camp in Ontario, Canada. He has many fascinating memories of this happy time but the most memorable is when a fire raged in the forest and all the forest animals peaceably came out into the lake water where people from the surround area had gathered in safety. Fascinating story with lovely illustrations.

Dasher Can't Wait for Christmas by Matt Tavares. Another story about Dasher from the author Matt Tavares. Impatient for Christmas to come, Dasher wanders away from home in search of Christmas Carols and lights. After it starts to snow, she realizes she needs to get back home but gets lost along the way.

 Farmhouse by Sophie Blackall. Based on the stories of a family of 12 children who grew up in a farmhouse. Written in poem form, the lively text and charming, colorful illustrations bring to life the memories of another time. 


Sunday, November 19, 2023

3 Podcasts Worth Listening to: Fr. Ripperber, Fr. Mike Schmitz, and Sr. Miriam James Heidland

 Three Catholic Podcasts Worth Listening to on YouTube: Fr. Ripperber, Fr. Mike Schmitz, and Sr. Miriam James Heidland

These may be available on other platforms. 

Bishop Strickland, How Should the Faithful Respond?

U. S. Grace Force

What Nobody Knows about Fr. Mike Schmitz, Rebellious Missionary, Almost...

This is a second part of an interview.

Chris Stefanick

The Identity of a Woman Video Series

16 videos (They cover the four identities of a woman: mother, daughter, sister, bride). Sister Miriam James Heidland, Heather Khym, and Michelle Benzinger. 

Abiding Together Podcast

Saturday, November 18, 2023

Friday, November 17, 2023

How to Find a Good Picture Book!



Are you searching for a good picture book? 

Not just any book, but something that will add zip to your history or science study, or just the perfect touch to your topic on the change of seasons or current holiday, or just something to refresh your read aloud time? If so, there are several paths to find that hidden gem. 

Time is precious. Sometimes we don't have the luxury of sifting through the shelves and shelves of books at the library. What are some alternatives? 

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 1. Books that recommend books

 Before the days of the internet, I often would look for books based on the recommendations of trusted authors. What are some of these titles?


I have referred to Honey for a Child's Heart numerous times.



Another book I have referred to is  A Landscape with Dragons. The recommended reading lists are found at the back of the book thanks to the editorial staff at  Bethlehem Books. While many of the chapter books are out of print, several publishers have sought to republish them. The picture book list is comprised of many classics. For a person who never experienced these treasures growing up, it is a great place to begin. 

I have several other books I have referred to in the past.

2. School or Curriculum Book Lists.

Sometimes I look at the recommended lists on various school or curricula websites. 

Ambleside Online is one of many Charlotte Mason curricula.

Simply Charlotte Mason Go to "Build Your Own Charlotte Mason Curriculum."

Mater Amabilis is a Catholic Charlotte Mason approach.







And others!

 3. Follow a recommended book trail.

Sometimes on Amazon you will find "more items to explore" or "similar items" or "products related to this item" or "frequently bought together." Some online library catalogs offer additional suggestions or look up subject areas or favorite authors and peruse their new to you books.

4. Blogs or websites or Facebook groups which recommend books.





On Facebook and they also have their own website. Reshelving Alexandria

5. Book Stores or Book Publishers.









If you have a favorite resource for finding picture books, please share in the comments below.

Tuesday, November 14, 2023

Best Picture Books about Snow!



Inspired by our first snow day in Wisconsin on October 31, here is a list of favorite picture books about snow. ❄ The video is only when the flakes started flying. I could add more and more books to this list. Some are out of print.




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In Snow Day! by Lester Laminack, illus. by Adam Gustavson, a young boy imagines what he can do on a snow day. Surprise ending.



Winter is Coming by Tony Johnston, illus. by Jim LaMarche. Lovely illustrations complement the quiet gentleness of the moment.



Katy and the Big Snow by Virginia Lee Burton is in print as both a paperback or hardcover Katy and the Big Snow. Katy persevers to the end, clearing the way for everyone else.

Snow Day by Betsy and Guilio Maestro (one of my favorite author--illustrator teams) is a fun book about a big snow storm. Out of Print.


 Snow by Uri Shulevitz is an imaginative book about snow. A little boy hopes for more and more snow. An author worth looking for.


First Snow by Kim Lewis. Mommy, Sarah and Sarah's teddy bear climb up the hill to feed the sheep. Suddenly a snowstorm envelopes them and Sarah loses her teddy in the snow. Thankfully one of the sheep dogs finds teddy. One of a series of books.


Little Red Sleigh by Erin Guendelsberger, illus. by Elizaveta Tretyakova. Although this is listed as a Christmas book, this is a fun and imaginative book about sledding.



Snow Toward Evening, A Year in a River Valley, Nature Poems selected by Josette Frank, paintings by Thomas Locker. Captivating illustrations complement poems by famous poets, Langston Hughes, Wordsworth, and others. Out of print.


Most likely you have heard of these!
The Hat by Jan Brett is available as a hardcover or board book. When Lisa hangs her wollen clothes outside on the line, the forest animals discover them and create mischief. 
The Mitten by Jan Brett is also available as a hardcover or board book. When Nicki drops his mitten in the forest, the animals all cosy up together until . . . 
The Big Snow by Berta and Elmer Hader. In this Caldecott classic, the reader is introduced to what the animals will do when winter and the big snow comes.
The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats is another Caldecott winner. The link is to a board book even though I own it as a paperback. Peter discovers the wonder of snow.



Owl Moon by Jane Yolen, illus. by John Schoenherr. A young girl and her Pa set out one winter night to go owling. 
On a Wintry Morning by Dori Chaconas, illus. by Stephen T. Johnson. A baby and her daddy explore the wonders of a winter day, sledding, creating snow angels and more. Out of print.
Too Many Mittens by Florence and Louis Slobodkin is back in print as a paperback. When Ned and Donny, twins who live in Michigan, lose one of their mittens, life turns upside down.
Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening by Woods by Robert Frost, illus. by Susan Jeffers. When an elderly farmer drives his sleigh through the woods, he stops to enjoy its wonderous beauty and also meets his daughter and grandchildren on his way. Captivating illustrations.


Red Sled by Lita Judge is a fun book. A bear borrows a red sled and as he goes careening down the hill, more and more animals join him in this rolicking escapade. Available as a board book also. Red Sled

Tom and PIppo in the Snow by Helen Oxenbury. Tom is fearful os going down the big hill by himself, but in the end, he decided to do it several times without daddy. This is part of a series. Out of print.


Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening by Robert Frost, illus. by P. J. Lynch. In this recent release, Lynch imagines the voice in the poem as a girl riding her horse through the woods. Lovely illustrations transport the reader to a magical winter scene. 

More books about snow!




Blizzard by John Rocco. Based on a true life experience of the author's childhood. Fantastic illustrations!

The Missing Mitten Mystery by Steven Kellogg. Where or where did the little girl's red mitten go?

Snow by Cynthia Rylant. Lovely illustrations complement a child's favorite things to do in the snow.

Sugar Snow by Laura Ingalls Wilder (Little House Picture Book). Pa creates sugar snow for the girls.



Winter is the Warmest Season by Lauren Stringer. What makes winter the warmest season? Read to find out.

Goodbey Autumn, Hello Winter by Kenard Pak. A brother and sister explore nature with the changing of the seasons. Lovely illustrations.


The Snowy Nap by Jan Brett. Hedgie is back again. What did he miss while he was hibernating? Read to find out :)

Thursday, June 4, 2020



https://catholicmom.com/2014/04/15/why-do-we-homeschool/

“Why do we homeschool?” Often when we begin homeschooling there is something that prompted us to begin. It may have been a child struggling with school, a negative socializing experience, or any number of issues. Once the mom begins, she may feel conflicted that her children will miss out on some great academic experience. She may moan, “I wish I had a real science lab” or “I could never have an interesting literature discussion like I did in my British Literature class.” So why are we doing “that”? Why are we homeschooling? Because we want to educate the whole child; we want to educate the child for eternity.
On occasion my twin nephews, who are six years old, will burst into song, “Father, I adore you.” And I lay my life before you. How I love you.” In a public school setting, I guarantee the teacher would not appreciate or encourage such a song. But in the home, this is a beautiful testament of my nephews’ childlike faith.
Too often we focus on the academics and overlook the whole child, building the character of the child, considering all aspects of the person. In his Apostolic Letter Tertio Millennio Adveniente, Blessed John Paul II described Christ as one who “labored with human hands, thought with a human mind, acted with a human will, and loved with a human heart” (par. #4). We need to ask ourselves when we educate ourselves and our children, “Do we labor with Christ’s hands, think with Christ’s mind, act with Christ’s will, and love with Christ’s heart.” We sometimes become so consumed with educating our children’s mind, we overlook shaping their wills, teaching self-control of their drives and passions, training their hands, and nourishing their hearts and souls.
Because the child is a whole, integrated person, we cannot always compartmentalize when we will be educating their minds, their hearts, or their hands. While showing my daughters how to crochet, we might have a discussion on a topic that would form their character or is related to their academics. In practicing her violin or playing the piano, my daughter develops any number of virtues, such as perseverance, attention to detail, and listening to the soul.  When I ask a young child, “Please bring me a diaper or wash cloth” or another simple task; I am testing his will and encouraging his obedience. In the home, education is life.
What are we educating? The whole child.
How do we educate the whole child? Father Kentenich, the founder of Schoenstatt, an apostolic lay movement said, “We must educate our children in such a way that he or she can later give themselves to God, freely and of their own accord, when and where God wishes. When God asks us to return our children to him, we cannot keep them for ourselves. We must return our children from where they came, our Heavenly Father, whether in a consecrated life or a married or single state of life” (The Nazareth Family, unfinished manuscript, Fr. Jonathan Niehaus, 9).
It is not yet six in the morning and very peaceful and quiet as I am typing this up—a hushed quiet—, so it is easy for me to say that our homes should be a foretaste of heaven. We want to build our little Nazareth families, oases of love. When the baby is crying, the children are fighting, the phone is ringing and the water from the rice is boiling over, that is when life really begins to happen! Then can I also say, “Our homes should be a foretaste of heaven!”?
It is easy to smile, when the baby is coohing, but when the baby is fussing, the challenge arises that I then too should smile. At that moment, my human weakness reveals itself, I don’t want to smile. In my weakness, I can become discouraged or even despair, unless I look to a greater power outside of myself (or should I say deep within my soul). In my weakness, I can recognize that I cannot do this by myself; that I can turn to the Blessed Mother and ask her intercession. I can ask my Heavenly Father to send me the graces I need to accomplish that tasks he has set before me—to love my husband, children and family.
Once again! School is more than academics. It is habits and virtues. SAT and ACT tests do not measure creativity, ingenuity, industriousness, and many other virtues. Think of Thomas Alva Edison.
Every child is gifted, precious in the sight of God, created in the image and likeness of God.
Anybody can accomplish school academics for a year. We want to instill a lifelong love of learning, a striving to be a saint.
Homeschooling should be a restoring of childhood to its proper place. Even if you did not experience an ideal family situation when growing up, because of death, divorce, or brokenness, our Heavenly Father through the gifts of the Holy Spirit gives you the grace to transform your family into a family filled with the love of Christ.
Mitchell Kalpakgian in the dedication of his book, The Mysteries of Life in Children’s Literature, describes what we are striving for. 
“To all my beloved Armenian family members who provided me an authentic childhood of play, innocence, and wonder, who instilled in me a love of life, a love of family, and a love of God; who made me feel special, loved, and the apple of their eye; who showed me by their example that loving children is the great business of life; whose generosity, hospitality, and kindness formed my heart; and who taught me how to savor the simple pleasure of life: delicious, home-cooked food, conversation at the dinner table, visits to friends and relatives, the bonds of true friendships, the love of learning, the mirth of games and sports, and the wonder of hearing stories of the miracles of Divine Providence in each person’s life” (vii).
What is your goal in homeschooling? If you define a successful homeschool year as doing every problem on every page and finishing all the textbooks and workbooks by a certain date, you may accomplish your goal, but did you achieve success? With this goal, you may end up a burnt out, frazzled, crispy-around-the-edges mom.
If you define your goal as the extreme opposite—Oh, just hanging out and doing whatever you feel like whenever—, then you don’t have a plan. What are “you” trying to accomplish? We need to have a goal. I need to know, “Why am I doing this? What do I hope to achieve?”
When you go to bed at night, what do you wish you had done that day? Then do it the next day.
What do you wish you had done growing up?
What positive memories from childhood do you have? What positive memories do you wish to give your children?
What do your kids wish to do?
What is the one thing you want to accomplish this year with each child? It can be a habit or a virtue, not just a subject or a skill.
What are social, emotional, psychological, and academic reasons that you are doing this?
As parents, what do we do to encourage or even make possible the healthy interests or childhood pastimes of our children? When homeschooling is all said and done, what do we as parents wish to accomplish? What is our end goal? If our end goal determines how we live out our lives on a day to day basis, then what is our end goal? How do we define it?
Is our style of life living from one TV program to the next? One sporting season to the next? Who won the Superbowl 10 years ago? 5 years ago? the World Series? Grammy Awards? Academy Awards? Who was the most popular singer, movie star, or sports personality 10 years ago? We can become sucked into a culture of superficiality unless we offer healthy substitutes.
By turning off the TV, computer or video games, and other distractions, you can experience life in a whole new way: plant a garden, learn a musical instrument, read that book aloud to the whole family.
Do we encourage the good, the true, and the beautiful? Phil. 4:8 “Your thoughts should be wholly directed to all that is true, all that deserves respect, all that is honest, pure, admirable, decent, virtuous, or worthy of praise.”
Let us strive to make our homes havens of peace, joy, laughter, and love. Pope John Paul II said, the home “is truly ‘the sanctuary of life’” (Evangelium Vitae). Ultimately, homeschooling is an avenue to live that sanctuary of life. It is turning our homes into oases of love, miniature churches, in the midst of the world.
Homeschooling is not about academics or SAT scores or basketball scholarships. It’s about love. Love your children with the love of Christ. I may not always want to love, especially when someone is being unlovable, but I can ask Christ to love through me. Since we are fallen creatures, teaching our children to love is a lifelong process. In Familiaris Consortio, we read, “Love is therefore the fundamental and innate vocation of every human being” (Par. 11).
As Fr. Kentenich, the founder of the apostolic movement of Schoenstatt said, “The ultimate meaning of our life is to learn to love, to learn to love correctly, to learn to love selflessly, to learn to love constantly, to learn to love faithfully” (On Monday Evenings, Vol. 20, 123).
So, why do you do that?
Homeschooling is all about love.
Copyright 2014 Elizabeth Yank

Spiritual Warfare 101: Are You Ready for the Fight?



Spiritual Warfare 101: Are You Ready for the Fight?: Are you ready for the fight? If you were to enter the boxing ring today, would you be primed? Or are your muscles a little flabby, your lungs easily winded and your feet dragging instead of dancing? Besides you don’t want to break your nose. Competitive boxers prepare through discipline and hard work. They recognize …

Wednesday, May 27, 2020

Who is That Lady With the Rosary?



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Every morning as I walk through my mother's quiet community in Florida, I bring out my weapon of choice, the rosary. In the famous St. John Bosco vision of two columns, the Pope steers the ship toward the column with the Eucharist, "Salvation of the Faithful" and the column with the Blessed Virgin, "Help of Christians." A violent storm rages, tossing the ship, while the enemies of the Church assault it on all sides. The Pope is struck twice, dying, and the new Pope, overcoming innumerable obstacles, safely guides the ship to the two pillars and securely fastens chains with anchors to the two columns, safely mooring it. Immediately, all the enemies of the Church scatter, ships collide with one another and eventually sink. We don't know when this dream will come to fruition, but we do know that God has given us two gifts to sustain us when we are assaulted on all sides, two pillars of strength and power, the Eucharist and Mary, Help of Christians.
            Right now, not just in the United States but throughout the world, only some faithful are able to receive Holy Communion. In a very few parishes they are still able to receive the sacrament of Confession. A few have Eucharistic Adoration. However, there is one devotion that never has to go away and that is devotion to the Blessed Mother. The Church recognizes her power. On May 1 Bishops throughout the United States reconsecrated the country to Mary. Within the home, we too can also dedicate our homes to her Immaculate Heart.
            We can also recognize her power by imploring her to help us during this time of crisis, under her titles as Advocate, Co-redemtrix and the Mediatrix of all Graces, to stand before the throne of God and intercede for us, her children. What was our Blessed Mother's request at Fatima: to pray the rosary daily, establish devotion to her Immaculate Heart, to offer sacrifices for sinners and say many times, especially when we make a sacrifice, 'O Jesus, this is for love of Thee, for the conversion of sinners, and in reparation for the sins committed against the Immaculate Heart of Mary.'
            Many years ago when we were first married we dedicated our home to the Blessed Mother under the title Queen and Victress of Schoenstatt. While we faithfully say our prayers in our homeshrine, saying the rosary has always been a challenge with children. Nonetheless, let us keep in mind the words of Theodore Roosevelt:
            Nothing in this world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty. No kind of life is worth leading if it is always an easy life. I  know that your life is hard; I know that your work is hard; and hardest of all for those of you who have the highest trained consciences, and who therefore feel always how much you ought to do. I know your work is hard, and that is why I congratulate you with all my heart. I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life; I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well.
            Recently when I turned on my computer, the title of an article popped up. "How to start running, even if you are bad at it." We could change the words to "How to start praying, even if you are bad at it." G. K. Chesterton encourages us, “If a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly.” Let me explain. My brother likes to enter road cycling races. Those who don't train drop out very quickly. In other words, if you want to succeed, you need to start somewhere and it isn't going to be at the top. You will need to train. You will need to build up your endurance, stamina, strength. You will start by doing it badly.
            There are various websites, such as U. S. Grace Force, that are encouraging people to commit to saying the rosary daily. There are also groups, like America Needs Fatima, that have for many years supported rosary rallies. Still other groups have encouraged rosary processions. The Layman's Rosary of Reparation and St. Charles Borromeo Society also recognize the need and the power of the rosary. These are perilous times. If we don't start saying the rosary now, when? Just like working out for a bike race, this is a battle which will require stamina, endurance and strength.
            Our country is in need of a miracle of grace, for the spiritual and moral renewal of its people. Through perseverance and thousands upon thousands of rosaries families prayed every day, Fr. Petrus Pavlicek led the charge to drive out the Soviet Union from the Soviet occupied zone of Austria without a single loss of life. It took 8 long years, but in the end the Blessed Mother was victorious!
            We need to remember the words of Fr. Pavlicek: “Peace is a gift of God, not the work of politicians,” He added, "the gifts of God are obtained through prayers that storm heaven as soldiers storm a fort—with confidence and determination."
            We need to unleash the incredible power of the rosary. Father Gabriele Amorth, the Vatican exorcist, said,  "One day a colleague of mine heard the devil say during an exorcism, 'Every Hail Mary is like a blow on my head. If Christians knew how powerful the Rosary was, it would be my end.'"
            In the musical Les Misérables is a line from "Do You Hear the People Sing." "Will you join in our crusade? Who will be strong and stand with me?" Will you join in the crusade to crush Satan through the Immaculate Heart of Mary to restore holiness to our country?

Monday, May 4, 2020

Responding to the Heavenly Father's Love

Responding to the Heavenly Father's Love: “Do you love me?” are the touching words Tevye sings to Golde, his faithful wife of 25 years, in the acclaimed musical Fiddler on the Roof. The musical’s universal appeal unfolds the deeper meaning of love through sacrifice, begging the question, “What is true love?” Following the custom of the time, Tevye and Golde’s parents …

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Pope St. Pius V's Saintly Secret Weapon

Pope St. Pius V's Saintly Secret Weapon: One of my favorite lines from the Disney animated classic, An American Tail, is when Gussie yells, “Release the secret weapon! (To imitate her; her “r”s sound like “w”s). This sets in motion a chain of events that unleashes the secret weapon’s incredible power, ultimately routing their inimitable foes. The mice, like David in the …

Sunday, January 31, 2016

Amazing Life of Chiara Corbella Petrilla


I recently finished reading her amazing biography Chiara Corbella Petrillo: A Witness to Joy

and highly recommend it to all.


There is a website dedicated to her: Chiara Corbella Petrillo.

Crisis Magazine also did a short story about her life: Chiara Corbella: a witness to joy.

And Focus also did a story about her: Saints are still being made

And you can listen to her testimony with subtitles:   Chiara Corbella Petrillo.

Saturday, May 30, 2015

Teaching Our Children to Pray





In our modern society, people like to pride themselves on being hip, cool, and atheist. For some atheists, their parents were atheists. But for others, as they were growing up, their parents did not want to “impose” their belief system (religious or otherwise) on them. Like picking their favorite candies out of a chocolate box, the parents wanted their children to wait until they were old enough to  decide which flavor they liked best: Catholic, Methodist or Evangelical. Except handing on the faith is not like picking out the caramel nougat versus the vanilla flavor one. And if they never decide, so be it–except that church weddings are a bit more fancy. Never mind that the parents would be horrified if the child decided to never take a bath or brush his teeth. Never mind that without faith the basis for a value system of right and wrong is always shifting. Why is honesty important? Why should I tell the truth?

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Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Catholic Exchange:Spiritual Warfare 101: Are You Ready for the Fight?




Are you ready for the fight? If you were to enter the boxing ring today, would you be primed? Or are your muscles a little flabby, your lungs easily winded and your feet dragging instead of dancing? Besides you don’t want to break your nose.

Competitive boxers prepare through discipline and hard work. They recognize that only through perseverance, mental fortitude, stamina and skill will they beat their opponent. Their vigorous fitness training includes both physical conditioning and mental preparation. It’s not just the boxer who delivers the explosive punches, hooks, and jabs that wins. It’s the boxer, who outfoxes and outmaneuvers his opponent, mentally and physically, packing the powerful punches and persevering until the end that is declared the winner.

Similarly, before engaging in battle no general worth his 5 stars would ever send a soldier into combat without him first completing the rigorous exercises and tedious drills of boot camp. In addition to forming his soldiers, an astute general recognizes that his enemy is real and he prepares a realistic battle plan.

Think spiritual warfare and you might imagine St. Michael, sword drawn, battling it out with Satan and his minions or the movie The Exorcist with the young girl’s head spinning and voice growling. Cynics may scoff, “Spiritual warfare is just a fairy tale—a Biblical myth to entertain little kids or a sensationalized story of demons and deliverance to create a box office blockbuster.”

The devil, however, is real. As St. Peter tells us, “Your opponent the devil is prowling around like a roaring lion looking for [someone] to devour” (1 Peter 5:8).  Yes, that someone is you! Definitely, there are times when an exorcist is necessary, but what about you? Are you ready for the fight? Do you have a realistic battle plan to combat the devil in your life?
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Monday, January 5, 2015

CatholicExchange: Saints Among Us

We have heard it often enough, “I don’t need to go to church. I don’t need organized religion. I can just worship God in my own time, in my own way.”

If I would have chosen that path–which is often tempting on Sunday morning–to just roll over and pull the covers over my head and ignore the chaos and confusion of getting breakfast on the table and everyone dressed, presentable and to church on time, I would have been the one who would have suffered for it, for I would have been the one who would have missed out on friendships that have nudged me–if not catapulted me–in the right direction, the direction of holiness.

I would have been the one who would have missed knowing “x.” No matter how difficult life is she is cheerful, not in a bubbly pop-the-cork champagne way, but in a smiling calmly Mona Lisa way. Her serene demeanor is one that invites the other to unburden the cares and worries of the heart to an empathetic ear.

Her compassionate concern for others brings to life those saint stories of long ago, making them real and not just fairy tales. At the same time, knowing someone who strives to be good and kind offers refreshing hope in a world that seems to have gone bonkers. . . .

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